Human Beings are a community of intelligence. We are not complete. We are still in progress. Relationships are the proving ground for our exercising this intelligence. We are not so much bound by our DNA as we are released to evolve beyond our forbears through the action we call learning. Learning invites intelligence to come forth. This is not learning from books; not the collection of knowledge but more in the nature of emotional growth. We are lagging in that arena. Intellectual growth is more easily achieved since schools are aimed at offering that kind of learning. Emotional learning comes through relationships. Smooth, loving relationships come through the crucible of emotional learning and the exercising of our real human community of intelligence.