Everything is a Matter of Choice

Between stimulus and response, there is a space.

In that space lies our freedom and our power to choose our response.

In our response lies our growth and our happiness.


I don’t know who said these words and I would like to know so that I could give credit, but these are the most important concepts I have ever learned.  The space between the instant something comes into our awareness and the instant we respond is the most important space of all.  That is where our power exists.  To be able to be aware of what is transpiring in our thoughts-feelings-behavior-memory machine when someone or some thing outside us comes into focus–that is my highest aspiration.  If I am aware and I realize that I have a choice in how I respond, I have claimed my power as an authentic human being. Read more...



Here is our list of the books we are currently reading.  Our method is that we give over one to two hours daily to read into these books, one page or one paragraph at a time.  We read aloud to each other and sometimes spend time discussing the ideas.  Altogether, it feeds the “learner” talent in me and seems to appeal to the “maximizer” in both of us.  Enjoy and send me your feedback. Read more...